Out-of-court support for separation & divorce

Saskatchewan’s most comprehensive out-of-court support, with three easy ways to get started.

Separation and divorce coach Lana Wickstrom in Saskatoon sits on a black leather couch in a professional setting, smiling at the camera with her hands clasped in a heart shape.

The incredibly difficult experience of separation and divorce just got a little less overwhelming for you.

Which of these three options matches the help you need?

Both Of Us

Mediation, Arbitration, Collaborative Divorce, Parenting Coordination.

  • Most people start with a Roadmap Consult™ — a 90-minute education and strategy session for both of you.

    From there, possible next steps may include mediation, collaborative divorce (with me as family coach), or parenting coordination, if that’s a better fit.

    The focus is on realistic, workable decisions about parenting, money, and property — not pretending everything is “amicable” when it isn’t.

Just Me

1-1 Separation Coaching support just for you.

  • Individual support if you’re contemplating separation, in the early chaos, or living with the aftermath.

    We focus on scripts, boundaries, and planning so you’re not running your separation through a search engine or your most reactive group chat.

    Helps you use lawyers and other professionals more wisely — and avoid unforced errors driven by panic, guilt, or pressure.

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Online Class

Discreet, affordable, virtual education about separation and divorce.

  • Individual support if you’re contemplating separation, in the early chaos, or living with the aftermath.

    We focus on scripts, boundaries, and planning so you’re not running your separation through a search engine or your most reactive group chat.

    Helps you use lawyers and other professionals more wisely — and avoid unforced errors driven by panic, guilt, or pressure.

You Don’t Need To Do This Alone

My guess is — you wish you could just dump your situation on someone’s table and have them skillfully point you in the most effective direction.

Good news: that person is me.

Over the past two decades, I’ve worked as a defense lawyer, Crown prosecutor, corporate lawyer, family law lawyer, professional mediator and social worker. I’ve seen complicated people problems from all angles, which means I understand situations — and humans — on all sides of an issue.

Now, I work entirely out of court as a deliberate reaction to my courtroom years, not an extension of them. I help people create healthier experiences that are intentional, mindfully designed, and less destructive, even when things are messy.

Separation and divorce coach Lana Wickstrom in Saskatoon is having a discussion with another person, who is pointing at notes and holding a pen, in a professional setting with papers on the table and a framed picture on the wall.

Why Not Just Lawyer Up First?

For a long time, this was the standard separation story:

One person hires a lawyer.
The other person hires a lawyer.

Different stories.
Different rooms.

No one to predict and prevent unnecessary challenges or easily avoidable problems.
Nothing to neutralize conflict or normalize aspects of the experience.
No one to interpret information or provide context or perspective.

This approach leads to spiraling costs, assumptions, stories, resentment, and regrets.

Enter changes to the laws in 2022:

Separation and divorce coach Lana Wickstrom in Saskatoon is sitting at a desk with a laptop, a black coffee mug, and a smartphone.

The Old Way:

Hire separate lawyers with different backgrounds, focus, and experiences.

Get different-at-best and competing-at-worst legal advice.

Try to make decisions, avoiding billable hours as much as possible, while exhausted, scared, and overloaded with sorting through stories from friends, family, and the internet.

The New Reality:

Since July 2022, Saskatchewan’s changes to separation and divorce laws called “Early Family Dispute Resolution” (EFDR) are redirecting separating people to work with “approved service providers” who are capable of giving clients “Certificates of Participation” in out-of-court services like mediation, collaborative divorce, arbitration, and parenting coordination.

These laws are catching up with what many of us have known for years, starting with out-of-court processes is usually safer and more responsible than going straight to court. In 2022, Saskatchewan’s Early Family Dispute Resolution (EFDR) took effect.

This means that out-of-court processes, like mediation, are now a required first step for people who are separating.

Now there are much more effective ways to navigate your separation.

READY FOR SOME DIRECTION?